THE PRESENCE AND LOVE OF GOD
I recently came across a short video by a man named Preston. I didn’t get his last name. He was being interviewed in a studio and I gathered that he is a pastor. He was talking about those times in our lives when God is silent and seems distant. He said, “Don’t mistake the silence of God for the absence of God.” God promised never to leave us (Matthew 28:20). He is always present, even when we don’t sense him. Preston told the story of a time when his daughter was about three years old. Sometimes he would have to leave for work before the little one woke. On those mornings, he would go into her room, pray over her and kiss her. One morning, he found himself simply staring at his little sleeping angel, incredibly thankful for the blessing of being her father. And at that moment, God impressed this thought on him: “Do you know I do this every morning over your bed?”
Psalm 139:17,18 says, “How precious also are Your thoughts to me, O God! How great is the sum of them! If I should count them, they would be more in number than the sand; when I awake, I am still with You (italics mine).” God is thinking about us and holds us close, even when
we sleep. That statement God impressed upon Preston – “Do you know I do this every morning over your bed?” resonates with me and, in fact, makes me a bit emotional. Because I remember well those same moments, like you might, too: praying over my children as they slept, often kneeling by their beds, and sometimes simply staring at their beautiful faces, thanking God for the privilege of being their Daddy.
God is there, always, even when we can’t feel Him or hear Him. Preston ended the video segment with this statement: “If you feel like God is silent, and the enemy is trying to convince you it’s because of something you’ve done, and God is now absent, He is not…maybe today is a
staring day…and if you want to know what He’s doing, standing over your bed, He’s staring. His eye is on you and it never leaves you, because you are His obsession. His silence isn’t due to anger; His silence is due to obsession.”
The word “obsession,” when applied to God, makes me uncomfortable, but I agree with the general idea Preston is trying to communicate - that God’s love for us is powerful and that He is always present, whether we feel Him or not.
There is a verse in the Old Testament that describes God and His relationship to us in a very unusual way. You may never have encountered it. It’s found in that section of Scripture seldom discussed – the Minor Prophets (minor, by the way, because they are relatively short
books compared to Isaiah, Jeremiah and Ezekiel, not because their message is less relevant). Zephaniah 3:17 is the verse. “The LORD your God is in your midst, a victorious warrior. He will exult over you with joy, He will be quiet in His love, He will rejoice over you with shouts of joy.”
Here’s the picture in my mind as I think about that verse. Here comes God, in the armor of a warrior, having just defeated the enemy. He’s flushed with victory. And then He sees you. He gives a shout of joy that rocks the universe, and runs to you. You take a step back at His
vigorous and enthusiastic greeting, knowing you don’t deserve it, but He takes you by the shoulders and simply stares at you for a moment, indescribable love in His face. His armor disappears. He wraps you in His arms and holds you in the warmest, most loving and enveloping hug you’ve ever experienced. Not one of those one-second hugs like the one
you give your cousin or son-in-law at Christmas, but a real hug, one that lasts a long time and communicates that He knows your sorrows and your loss and hurts with you, and lets you know that you are the most important person in the world to Him. And when the hug is finished, He grins at you and gives another universe-splitting shout of pure joy, reveling in your presence with Him. He puts his arm over your shoulder and together you walk into the future.
That’s just my imagination at work, and I suspect that I’m not doing Zephaniah 3:17 justice when it comes to the joy God feels when He thinks about you and me. I feel immense gratitude, as well as a fair amount of unworthiness when I think of that picture - gratitude for what
He did for me, sending His Son Jesus to die on the cross, and unworthiness because I fail Him so often. However, considering the description of God in Zephaniah, I imagine He would brush aside my objections of worthlessness just as quickly as the father in the story of the Prodigal Son brushed aside his son’s similar protests (Luke 15:22-24).
God’s love for us is so indescribably wonderful, so incredibly deep and powerful, our stunted little hearts can’t even wrap themselves around it. We have no frame of reference to even begin to comprehend it. Rather than even try to understand it, I prefer to simply bask in it.
So when God is silent, He’s not absent. He’s still there, celebrating you, still holding you tight and loving you as you’ve never been loved. For whatever reason, you just can’t feel Him. He’s still there, still shouting with joy over you. For whatever reason, you just can’t hear Him. He
will never leave you nor forsake you. You are the most important person in the world to Him. You are His beloved child!
This week, read any (or all) of Psalms 145-150 for an inspiring time of praise. If you do it in the morning, it will energize you for whatever you face that day.
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About the author:

Recently retired, Brad looks forward to the challenges of a new ministry. He feels that seniors are a vital part of the church Body and though he has only recently crossed the threshold of “senior-dom,” he trusts that God can use Him to help seniors build a stronger relationship with God and stronger relationships with others. The senior years are accompanied by unique challenges, and Brad hopes to be able to come alongside seniors to pass along God’s hope and encouragement.
Brad and his wife Erin began attending Hannaford in November 2019. They have three grown children and two grandchildren (and a third due Spring 2026).
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